Haha chill Im not judging or saying there is anything wrong. I just found it funny he is potentially hiding there in plain sight lol. Not that there is any reason to hide even, but kinks tend to be hidden in our society. So here's this guy doing this big gala event but he can't come out and tell everyone "well btw I have this kink". If he did that, he would be ostracized and this big event may not happen as lot of people might see it differently.

You see the irony and how funny it is?!